6 steps for dating a girl

1.Ask powerful questions

Asking powerful questions is important in finding out about the other person. For example, you can use words such as what, where and how. These kind of words cannot lead to a simple yes or no answer. Instead they give the other person the opportunity to give a more comprehensive answer. Apart from that you may need to ask more specific questions at certain times. For example, if she says 'I'll call you soon' you may want to ask something like 'When should I expect a call'. Asking for more specific information will avoid misunderstandings!

2. Reality checks

Before you judge the other person, be aware that your beliefs and values are based on your reality, which doesn't mean your beliefs and values are right or wrong. We are all different and your date's beliefs and values may not match yours. Knowing and understanding this will make you more flexible and understanding of others, including your dates.

3.compliments

Women love to be complimented, but when overdone it can be harmful. Avoid typical, overused compliments such as "you have pretty eyes". A woman will appreciate a compliment that is personal and creative. It should show that you really notice her. She may have spent hours putting her look together, and will appreciate the attention




4. Avoid assumptions

Unfortunately, assuming is something we do a lot. So, instead of thinking 'She/he is probably doing this to blah, blah, blah...', ask! It's better to find out than to do guess work. And, if the other person doesn't seem to respond to you straight away, it doesn't mean that he or she isn't interested. Perhaps they just need to get to know you better before they demonstrate any kind of interest.

5. Build rapport

Rapport is the presence of trust, harmony and co-operation in a relationship. If you have rapport with a person you will make them feel like your ally, your partner.

You can create rapport by creating commonalities! You can do this by matching their language, breathing, gestures, facial expression and voice.

6. Be confident

Confidence can open many doors for you. When you are confident people will have more trust in you and your abilities. Even, if you don't consider yourself to be a confident person.

How to date a girl

Remember That First Dates Are Hardy Ever Perfect. In order to spare yourself from possible disappointment or frustration, try not to expect too much from your first date.Take this occasion as a chance to meet someone new, and take things from there -- you may want to see each other again, or you may want to keep moving forward in search of someone you have more of a spark with.
1.Be confident

Confidence can open many doors for you. When you are confident people will have more trust in you and your abilities. Even, if you don't consider yourself to be a confident person....ACT AS IF YOU ARE!
2.Lunch is Great Way to Start.

You may want to have your first date in a less pressured atmosphere. Instead of going out to dinner, ask your date if he or she prefers to have the date over lunch, or maybe even breakfast or brunch. These meals tend to be much more relaxed.
3.Avoid Movie Dates.

Try avoiding movie dates, or any activity that doesn't require much talking. You won't be able to get to know each other if your attention is focused elsewhere. Try doing something that requires you to talk so that you can begin learning more about one another. Pick an activity that both of you will enjoy - maybe a walk in the park or a picnic.
4.Don't Compare.

Don't compare your date with your previous relationships and/or exes as this is definitely not healthy. Just think, meeting someone new might bring a whole new meaning to your life.
Dating as a senior may initially seem like such a daunting task, but you'll soon see that dating is both fun and fulfilling. So, when setting off on a date, make sure you leave the doubt and fear at home and, instead, approach Baby Boomer dating as the beginning of an exciting new chapter in your life.